As my father’s health began to change in the summer of 2013, I admit we didn’t see the full magnitude. Disturbed sleeping patterns were hard for me to discern since I spent only one day a week with him sleeping in my home. I might hear him cry out once or twice. He might rise […]
The Body, the Brain, and the Sucker Punch – Part III There’s a Storm Coming
Understanding Lewy Body Dementia takes a few readings. I’ve met two types of people with regard to this disease; those who know exactly what it is and those who have no clue. Everyone knows what a heart attack is, even if they don’t know someone who’s had one. But this one is different. It sounds […]
The Body, the Brain, and the Sucker Punch – Part II The Autumn of our Discontent
My father moved in with my brother Labor Day weekend of 2010. Snapper and I drove the 400 miles in a van to load his possessions. While it was kind of sad to think, we knew this was a momentous event. More than likely this would be the last time either of us visited the […]
The Body, the Brain, and the Sucker Punch – Part I: In The Beginning
My father is dying. Slowly. As he lies in his bed at hospice I sit here in comfort in my office wondering how in the hell I’m going to process this in some way to make it digestible. It’s a nebulous thought, still detached from my reality like the trip one plans to take in […]
Random thoughts on time management
It’s Saturday and I’m up again with purpose. Dad is in a new home and I have to leave soon, but I want to dash down some thoughts. Forcing myself to write is the only way to get enough content out it seems. These weekend mornings serve as a sounding board but in blog-sized bites. […]
The struggle to be present
My father’s illness is a brutal one, both physically and mentally on him and his family. His Parkinsons causes him discomfort for sure and requires those around him to help. His dementia requires they think for him and it robs him of being present. He gets lost in a sea of memories and stimulus, creating […]
Perception and reality
It’s Saturday and it’s been a long week. My father is ill and I’ve spent a lot of time this week at the hospital. Apparently stress to a body system can cause delirium in an older person; acute delirium. The show that’s going on in my father’s head must be shockingly vivid considering the hand […]
Let the river flow – or the Vulcan Buddhist
I think of myself as the Vulcan Buddhist. Vulcans aren’t emotionless as much as they’re super control freaks. Recognizing the volatile nature of emotion, they chose to place emotion in the back seat and mutually agreed to get along for the better of Vulcan. Emotion is therefore controlled and in most cases suppressed. A Buddhist […]
Camps, cucumbers, and the good old days
It’s Saturday and I’m thinking about my son upstairs asleep in his room. He’s just back from an orchestra camp held at Emory University and I’m telling you it must have been quite an experience. His texting has increased ten fold with his new friends. My son is 12, meaning he’s old enough to have […]
Reaching out
If the Earth is sentient one might suppose that like all living creatures it craves life. Not the zombie kind of crave. I mean it desires long life, something we all want. With only 7 other siblings in the solar system I can see why it might be a concern. Survival of the species becomes […]